Patterns

It has become quite obvious to me (and sharply pointed out to me by a few close friends) that I have been following some patterns in my life and it’s starting to get overwhelmingly frustrating. Is it just about lessons that I need to learn (as per my previous blog post) and the lessons keep coming until I change my behavior? Or just that my patterns of behavior keep leading me to the same places and that’s just who I am? And if it’s the latter how do you change, or should I even? Perhaps I need to accept that the patterns are just part of my nature…